Seeking Suggestions

I have received quite a bit of criticism in regard to my approach of dealing with this issue. What I have not heard, is any solutions or suggestions as to how we can address this issue. I would like to hear comments and suggestions as to a better way to deal with these issues in our community.

I am not going to rely on Rabbonim, because it is obvious that they have failed at any attempts they have ever made. I am also not willing to just let it go, as I feel that these issues need to be addressed by the community.

"Whoever saves one live, its as if he saved all of the world", so even if I prevent one man from bringing home a deadly disease to his wife, this blog is worth it.

Another Chilul Hashem

New York Magazine Article

Doesn't anyone get sick after reading this article, or is it only me. What is wrong with us frum men? Don't we realize that we are causing a huge chilul hashem?

For those seeking help

For those individuals seeking help, I suggest you visit: Tzama Nafshi.

HIV In Crown Heights

There have been recent rumors regarding a well known sheitel macher in Crown Heights who is rumored to be HIV positive. It is also rumored that she was extremely sexually active in the community, and has know to have slept with quite a number of frum men.

This leads to another question of concern, and that is:

Now that this crisis is life threatening, and one who 'plays' around and risks catching a life threatening disease, and transmitting it to their spouse, don't they have a din rodeif?

If they do, then don't we need to be aggressive in our enforcement and monitoring. Shouldn't our Rabbonim develop a real Vaad Hatznius that will actively pursue these individuals before they chas v'shalom kill their wives, and/or children.

Why do our frum men and women think they are immune to such life threatening illnesses. For all the non-believers who say that there are no HIV+ people in the frum community feel free to contact the Tzvi Aryeh AIDS Foundation at TzviAryeh@aol.com or 212-866-6306.

Whore House in Boro Park

There is a hotel in Boro Park that rents its room to a well know escort agency, and services only frum men. There is also a guy outside that helps recruit individuals. The owner is aware of the activities, and from my understanding even encourages it. He is Frum, Chasidish, with a family. I have contacted the Rav hamachshir of the facility and made him aware of this, and asked him to pull his hashgocho from the place unless the activity stopped. He refused to do so, saying that it has nothing to do with Kashrus.

If rabbonim aren't willing to take a stand on this issue, then what hope is there?

Craigslist

Frum postings on Craigslist

When I read these posts, I am shocked to my core. Doesn't anyone care about this chilul hashem. Have you read the comments by some of the goyim talking about how fake we frum people are.

What can be done to stop the chilul hashem.

While I am resigning myself to the fact that there will always be those in our community that will sin, I am however not giving up on the chilul hashem.

I will pursue whatever options I have, to end this. If it means setting up stings, and exposing these losers, I will not hesitate to do so.

Why I created this Blog!

I created this blog to bring attention to the issues relating to the Frum Heimishe oilam and their indecent sexual escapades and the chilul hashem they are causing. I am appalled how promiscuity is so prevalent in the frum Oilam.

I am shocked when I go into chat rooms, Craigslist, and other places, and see Frum people posting explicit ads, seeking 'Kol Davar Assur'.

While I understand that we all have taaveh's, I am appalled at the chilul hashem. Have people gone so far that they don't even care. Why do the goyim have to think that we are all full of bologne, and that we are all a lost religion?

Additionally, if a frum man wants some sexual wild times, why does he need to do it with a frum woman? What about all of the additional issurim?

What are Rabbonim doing about this, and what can be done to control it?